Spanking Straight Boys: Russell on The Spanking Bench

Why so much EMPHASIS on him being married are we going to hear that everytime "he is married" so are millions of other people around the globe. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Mmm. Delicious!

I'm glad you like Russell - Thanks, Tom

Because for many gay men (although maybe not all), there's a fantasy of "having" a straight and sometimes even married man. Some may consider straight AND married as a "double challenge".

You could have asked why so many sites catering to gay men feature straight men, right down to putting that in the title of the site. There's clearly a market for it, otherwise it wouldn't happen.

Wanting to have what you've been told you can't have is human nature. I wouldn't go to the trouble of getting upset over it. The maker of this site clearly knows what he's doing, and he does it well. All the better for his many viewers.
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Tom, will Dex be appearing in anymore of your clips?

Hi Jim - Yes, Dex is still active with our site and I speak to him regularly. I do expect that he will be doing more videos. Thanks - Tom

I suspect there is also a certain frisson for some viewers that he is not only a full-grown adult being spanked like a naughty little boy, he is one who has taken on the responsibilities of marriage as well.

Oh yeah I know the websites you're talking about those websites that feature "STRAIGHT MEN" then you see them getting fucked by other men or doing lots of gay porn!! Just because you're told someone is straight or you're told certain things by these websites doesn't mean it to be true! Sales matter to them not the truth I am not saying Tom is lying but I know there are lots who do!! As for Tom doing something well it's subjective I am not a fan however I don't need to hear about someone being married all the time the same as I don't need to hear someone's political views all the time!! Getting married is a big responsibility and so is divorce. A word of advice... Don't believe everything you read on the internet people!! I can't say I do want what I can't have at least I wouldn't be going after married men and making a big ordeal out of someone being married for me it would be about the SPANKING CONTENT not someone's personal situation also on the flip side why reveal his personal life in the first place I wouldn't do that myself someone's personal life is just that this is porn not the Oprah Winfrey show.

I think it also adds a twist to the story, that there's someone waiting for him at home - from this point of view, it wouldn't matter whether it was his wife/girlfriend/boyfriend: in this case it happens to be his wife - the point is that she knows where he's gone, and that he's going to get spanked good and proper; and when he gets home, with his sore bottom, she's going to say "Come on then, let's see the marks! Let's see what he's done to you!", and he shows her. Maybe she'll be full of sympathy, or tease him: who knows? But knowing this, our imagination gets to work...

omg i LOVE THE WAY THE HAIR ON HIS ASSHOLE AND BALLS LOOKS

What constitutes straight, and what constitutes bi or gay, seems to always be changing. We won't discriminate against anyone based on sexual orientation. We often don't know a boy's answer to what his orientation is until we ask him in the interview, and, at that point the video is already in progress. It is, of course, impossible for us to know with certainty whether a young man is straight, gay or bi. The boy himself, even in his twenties or older, may not know. What we don't do is find gay guys and try to "pass them off" as straight. Most males in society are straight, and, therefor, most of the guys we ask to do videos end up being straight. A straight guy who is bi may not want to "admit" that to our viewers or even himself. We can't ferret that out, and doing so would put a lot of the boys off. We don't want an Inquisition. I am convinced that the vast majority of the guys on the site are, in fact, straight. Some are bi, but even they are primarily attracted to women. When asked, Russell said he is pansexual. I mention he is married (to a woman) because it is something that sets him apart from so many other of the guys we shoot. Very few of our boys are married and none of them have said they are pansexual. It is unusual to be 19, pansexual and married to a woman. It is something unique and interesting about Russell. It is also a reminder that although Russell looks very young, he is, in fact, an adult (as are all of our models, of course).

As for my personal view, I have always thought that the only thing that determines one's sexual orientation is what he is sexually attracted to. You could have sex with anyone, but, if you aren't attracted to them sexually, that is not indicative of orientation. A guy could have sex with hundreds of other guys, but, if he truly isn't attracted to them, I could never see him as gay or even bi. Many researchers have said that everyone is more or less straight or gay. That is why in the interviews, when a model tells us he is bi, we usually ask him, if he could only have sex with men or women for the rest of his life, which would he choose. In the end, being straight is definitely not a requirement to be on the site. As far as the name of the site goes, we had to be practical. We couldn't be www.spankingstraightandsometimesbiandoccassionallygayorpansexualboys.com.

Yes, that is part of my thought process, too. Many of the boys we spank have girlfriends and some have wives. However, their women almost never know they are doing spanking videos. I've asked some of them what their women will think when they see their asses are red, and the answer I get is that their women don't look at their butts. That seems impossible to me, but they seem certain of it.

As you say its porn & fantasy. These things don't need to be true, they only need someone to be able to suspend their disbelief & indulge their fantasy. Just because something doesn't appeal to you doesn't mean that it won't appeal to other people. You may not always be the target market of a particular site.

Me too!

I still fail to see why you're getting so upset about it, Luke. Kinsey estimated that around 10% of men are gay in some way or other, meaning that the vast majority of "male stock" is going to be straight. There are countless reports of straight men stating that there's far more money to be made in gay porn than in straight porn, and in gay porn there's the chance of gaining a fan base. They realise they're onto a good thing, so they do what's required, i.e. engaging in sex with other men. That says nothing about their genuine preferences, and in the age of Viagra anything can be staged.

I'm afraid I find it a bit short-sighted when someone takes the gay sex scenes as proof that they're not 100% straight. There are plenty of gay men in this world who, for a variety of reasons, engage in straight sex. Does that then mean they're somehow heterosexual?

You might not like to hear about the actors' marital status, just as I prefer not to have to look at the self-mutilation that some of these porn actors seem to think they have to subject themselves to, but I'm sure that if Tom, in his wonderfully mischievous way, is stressing it, it's because he knows that there are people out there who want to hear it. I stand by what I said: Tom is bloody good at what he does.

Hi Seb - Exactly. I like shrimp, but I can't stand oysters. However, if someone would pay me a good bit of money to eat oysters, I'd eat them. I could eat them every day, but that wouldn't mean I like them, and it certainly wouldn't mean I didn't like shrimp. Willingness to do something doesn't mean you like it.

There are billions of people in this world who hate the jobs they work every day. Much of the world's population doesn't even earn $1 per day, and they work day after day to earn starvation wages. That doesn't mean they like their work. It means they want the money.

What about Wes? Is he still active?

Russell is a cutie, I'm hoping that another cute boy, Parker, will return soon too...

I must admit I'm a big fan of Carter. It's the innocence of the boy and his respectful demeanour... who wouldn't want to have that boy over his knee, spanking his youthful arse and persuading him to ask for more...? That one video where he was holding on to Tom's leg while Tom spanked him was priceless.

Correction, I mean't Palmer...he has a drop-dead sexy voice.

I want to explain something very very clearly!!
My original comment was made because I PERSONALLY do not feel that I need to know the models "personal situation" and I've quoted personal situation because we don't actually know it to be true. We (the viewers) only know what we're being told by the filmmakers of these PORN websites where the vast majority of everything is fabricated and made up to appeal to people's fantasies which is stating the obvious! However my original first comment wasn't about anyone's sexuality be that straight, gay, bi etc... That wasn't even mentioned in my original comment. My original comment which I am now going to quote here said....
Why so much EMPHASIS on him being married are we going to hear that everytime “he is married” so are millions of other people around the globe.
I originally wrote that comment because the last post that Tom made with this particular model said the exact same thing http://jock-spank.net/spanking-straight-boys-russells-first-spanking/ for those who didn't actually know that so I was wondering why we needed to be told again that this model is MARRIED. I'm afraid that is it in regards to my first comment and for those looking into it so deeply there is nothing more to it other than that and what people have said that they get from knowing the model is married is purely your own fantasy personally I couldn't care I was expressing my own view. 
Now let's talk about this debacle that actually wasn't even on the cards from what I said in my original post. It's already clearly stated from a few comments here that there is actually no way of knowing if a models is "truly straight" and I actually don't care anyhow about thatnI just think people are so quick to make assumptions. I made the point that there are a lot of porn websites who make claims about there models in many shapes and forms be it their age, gender, sexuality whatever it may entail but the pont is whether you want to believe it or not there are plenty of websites who make false accusations about their models being one of those things but in reality they're actually not in the grand scheme of things no this doesn't matter and from a fantasy point of view it appeals more but that's all subjective to one's own desires. There is still the reality side of it which is the side that I'm referring to especially considering I started my conversation talking about how we do not need to know someone's personal life circumstances It seems that people are quick to jump on the bandwagon and make assumptions based of some of the things that I have wrote maybe I didn't explain myself with enough context but I am not just referring to one thing in particular for example two people of the same sex having sex on film there are other things that I know that bring me to such a conclusion I don't understand why anyone wouldn't choose to believe it anyway other than wanting to protect one's own fantasies. I'm actually also fully aware that most men who create spanking films are in fact straight and of course there is an appeal in that I myself prefer that however I would in denial to say that there are not websites out there who class their models as being something that they're actually not but it doesn't actually matter my comment was merely just a response to some of the stuff that was irrelevant from my original post
I actually feel like people have taken what I originally meant out of context I really am not bothered about someone sexuality (despite what my preference might be tailored towards) I don't care for me it was about the fact that we just don't need to know the ins and outs of everything. All of this other stuff that has been brought to light about straight models getting paid more etc etc and comparisons about everyday work life and porn some of this stuff just doesn't even go in the same sentence and a lot of it is actually not what I was initially speaking about. The same way that I'm being told that I can't make assumptions of two people having sex makes them gay (even though that isn't actually what I was meaning and I didn't express myself with enough context with that original statement) is the same thing as you cannot make assumptions that what you're being told is the complete truth.
Everyone has different tastes and for me I might not agree with what you say about Thomas when you make the statement that what Tom does he does really well I make the statement that for me it doesn't appeal and there's things that he does that I don't like again it's subjective it's personal opinion it's not fact everything is subjective most of the time. My original comment really was just a passing comment and I actually don't care about this that much but what annoys me is when people misconstrued and take things out of context maybe I should learn to try and express myself with more context so people don't get confused but I just want to round this off by saying I don't really care about someone's sexual preference yes I have preferences that I do like yes there are things that I have a preference towards but so does everyone in the grand scheme of it all it doesn't matter it really was just the first comment that I was wanting to write we just don't need to know everything that's it I don't know why people feel like they had to run away with that just to protect their own fantasy.
I'm done with this now I will just say I haven't expressed myself very well and that I think in-between everything the lines have been blurred and people have misunderstood what I originally was intending to say. I neither completely disagree or agree with what you say and I like many as a gay man prefer seeing straight men are were lucky enough that I'd say most are just that!!

PS. I don't mean to sound big-headed but I'm definitely giving myself a pat on the back here for accumulating such a large thread of interest on one of Tom's posts even with my "bad punctuation"! 

Thank you for that Luke, now you have made the points you wanted to make, I hope you feel you have clarified your position, and that you feel better for it! I now feel we have exhausted the subject of the model's sexuality, and hope we can now close this topic and move on to other things. PLEASE

That is unknown at this point.

<em>Oh darn.</em> I was just getting myself warmed up for the next round. ;-)))
(...I know, I know, I'm going to end up getting a definitive spanking if I'm not careful...)

Indeed you will! LOL. I not trying to play the Dictator. However, some topics have the potential to cause tension.